Sunday, November 21, 2010

Traditions Old and New



It's almost Thanksgiving and I will be leaving work on Wednesday afternoon and flying to Boston on the busiest travel day of the year. As I'm standing in the TSA line waiting on the person in front of me to quit arguing over what's allowed and what's not, I will try to think happy thoughts about what I'm thankful for.

I'm very thankful for Rick. I'm thankful for the great life we have ahead of us. Including our plans for a kitchen decorated with lobsters. All we have to do now is decide where that's going to be. And deal with that stabby beard issue. . .

I'm thankful for my family. Especially my Dads. They have been my rocks and voices of reason. Love you guys! I'll miss you on Thanksgiving, but I'll be sure to call and say hello.

I'm thankful for Rick's family. They have done so much to make me feel welcome. I'm really looking forward to spending Thanksgiving with them.

What are you most thankful for this year?






Now, on to the traditions. Rick and I love watching movies together. So, naturally movies play a big part in our holiday traditions. Every Christmas Rick watches The Shining. Every Thanksgiving I watch Harry Potter. This year we've added a new movie to the Thanksgiving lineup. . .Thankskilling. Yes, Thankskilling. Worst acting ever. Lamest plot ever. It's so bad that it's good. The killer turkey is hilarious.




One Christmas tradition that Rick has started sharing with me is exchanging Christmas stockings. I collect stockings and it's just not Christmas without a stocking full of little treats. I love finding things to fill Rick's stocking all year long. Then I go and find the perfect stocking for him. The stocking exchange is often more fun than gifts.





Rick will be coming down a couple of weeks before Christmas to spend a long weekend. Every year I take Oscar and Ducky (a.k.a. The Boys) for a ride through The Festival of Lights at Bull Run Park. This year Rick will be joining us. The Boys love car rides and they always sleep like little angels in the back of the car on the way home.


What are some of your favorite holiday traditions?

10 comments:

  1. I'm thankful for you too. I hope we're not making everybody puke, but I just had to say it. I also like that you have added "stabby" as its own tag.

    I'm sure the travel will be less than fun, but I'm glad you will be trying to keep the bigger goal in mind. I can't wait to spend my first Thanksgiving with you and my family. :)

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  2. Not making me puke. I think it's fantastic that the two of you are so happy. Marriage should always be based on this kind of friendship.

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  3. @Molly: I totally agree. That is what makes life with Rick (and his stabby beard) so wonderful. We are the best of friends. Makes me feel all warm and fuzzy. If anyone needs a barf bag, I'm sure I could snag a few off the plane ;)

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  4. @Rick: Well, of course my dear. That beard needs a tag as it has a life of its own.

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  5. We are looking forward to seeing you both on Thursday.

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  6. I did throw up a little in my mouth, but don't worry, I was able to swallow it back down.

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  7. Woo hoo! First, that we know of, person we made throw up.

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  8. Hey guys,

    Soooo sweet. Pukers are just jealous! ;) Um, I think my favorite holiday traditions are to try something new every year, if that's not oxymoronic. You know, to not just stick to a tradition for no reason, and to try to invite new traditions into the line-up, for sure.

    My favorite tradition is a little emo, but I just really like the moment before a big group of folks start to dig into eating, and we're all quiet and introspective. I think everyone needs more moments of self-reflection and gratitude throughout the year.

    Which, it sounds like both you and Rick are having as you are journeying through an awesome partnership together.

    Much love, and see you both soon!

    Bevin

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  9. Thank you Bevin.

    I am looking forward to the holidays for the first time in what has been 2 long years. My life has changed so much in such a short time. I'm glad to have such a great "partner in crime" to venture on with.

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  10. I'm home :( OK, I'm glad to see Oscar and Ducky, but I was sad to leave Rick and beautiful New England behind.

    We had a lovely Thanksgiving. I have to say that Rick's Mom is a fabulous cook and a truly gracious hostess. Rick's parents made me feel like part of the family and we had a great time visiting with them as always.

    Rick is the foodie out of the two of us and I swear I saw rainbows come out of his ears when he dug into his Mom's stuffing. It's been a long time since I've had such a delicious homecooked meal.

    I'm exhausted and happy :)

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