In that spirit, we have been discussing what we're going to wear. Thanks to numerous bridal and wedding-planning magazines, we realized that it would be perfectly fine to do whatever we want, as long as it's tasteful and somewhat consistent.
I am looking at going semi-formal. Nice pants, jacket and tie. Probably not going the tuxedo route. They can get pretty uncomfortable. Most of the weddings I've been to have included me as a member of the wedding party, which meant tuxedos. In nearly every case, I can recall removing at least the jacket and vest or cummerbund, and untucking the shirt so I could dance more comfortably during the reception.
When it comes to wanting to dance for hours, though, the most important thing is the shoes. Formal shoes, especially rentals, are amazingly painful after a few hours. Sure they look great, and they have nice slippery bottoms for dancing enhancement on polished hardwood floors, but they HURT.
Not wanting to approach our special day as something whimsical or to be taken lightly, I asked Andy what she'd think about me adding my own special "sauce" to whatever outfit I chose, by adding some custom-made Converse All-Stars. Anyone who knows me well knows that this particular style of shoe is a staple of my casual wardrobe, and I felt it would be a nice touch to personalize the wedding plans.
She seemed supportive of the idea, so I went to Converse's website and started designing some shoes using our theme colors: A light blue (theirs is a little more saturated than what we chose, but oh well), sand, and dark brown.
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| I wanted brown laces too, but Converse doesn't offer them. |
Here's a 360ยบ view of how they turned out so far. (requires Flash)


Of course, yours truly will insist on wearing thoroughly uncomfortable shoes. Not on purpose, but women (this one anyway) tend to go for look and not comfort. I'm going to do my best to find a happy medium.
ReplyDeleteI think you should switch shoes before the dancing starts. I don't want your poor feet to hurt, but I want us to dance a lot. :)
ReplyDeleteYour feet will end up hurting anyway because my two left ones will probably be stepping all over yours.
ReplyDeleteThat's ok. Maybe I can order steel-toed Chucks.
ReplyDeleteNo worries. I will wear my best Hawaiian beach "slippahs". Then again . . . after reading Rick's October chilly weather forecast, I may have to rethink my total attire. Brrrr. [Why not a beach here in Hawaii?]
ReplyDeleteHi Dad! Great to see your posts. It just made my day when I checked this before work this morning. Hawaii is a little more than we can afford, it sure sounds nice though. Maybe we'll get lucky and get nicer weather since it will be the beginning of October.
ReplyDeleteRick, you can just buy brown shoelaces at another shoe store and add them to the chucks...
ReplyDeleteJohn,
ReplyDeleteYeah, I thought of that too after I posted this. I'll just get some shoelaces at CVS or something.